Lol, your post had me laughing a little bit when you said, "but even I can tell..."
I like Sandra, and I
am black, although I didn't see the Kwanzaa thing though. Had I seen it, I may not have been too offended by the whole corn nuts on the cake thing because I don't celebrate Kwanzaa, but perhaps maybe I would have been offended. I don't know.
Perhaps that particular episode is on YouTube and I can see what you are talking about. I would be utterly
fascinated to watch someone put Corn Nuts on a cake

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I like Sandra's tablescapes, but you are right, they are a bit much. A person has to have a storage room
full of dishes and decorations to pull off the kind of stuff that she does, but she tries to make things fun, so that's one of the reasons why I like her.
I also like her because a few years ago, I saw a documentary on her. How she basically raised her siblings, how they were dirt poor and she used to go out and pick wildflowers to dress up a table to make things cheery for everybody, how she cooked all the meals, even though she was just a little girl.
I also really like how she always fixes some kind of alcoholic beverage

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